Sorry for the bump. Wanted to share my opinion on this.
I am lesbian myself, and I don't get why people think it's some kind of twisted mind stuff, or a choice. I wish I wasn't lesbian at all, and that it would be easy for me to find somebody who loves me to. But that doesn't mean I can like men because I want to. I just don't feel attracted to them.
About the banning-marriage stuff, I don't get that either. Why? Since people are born gay (even though there are some people who say they are gay but they aren't, which I don't like, because other people will see them as gay people and start saying it's just a phase and a choice), why should you ban such a thing? It's like banning marriage for people with the same hair colour.
In the present, right now, we are with so many people, that we don't need to... Reproduce that much anymore. So I don't see the problem in people not having kids. Yes, of course, people still need to have kids to prevent extinction, but why would you blame people who love their own gender for every problem in the world (like some people do.)
Do you know these American people who are standing on these sidewalks with those signs... Those texts, saying that gay people are insane people who have nothing but hate for everything in this world, like we're some kind of evil power that may soon destroy the world. It's crap. Just crap. And it doesn't make any sense. It also makes me feel upset. Really upset.