That butterfly's getting awfully close to that flower, меlа.
Strangely, I always felt like eye-gazing is more of a female thing to do. Like, of all of the hobbyist artists I know, 9/10 of the ladies have a huge obsession with drawing eyes. And all of my ladyfriends of the past have been big on eye color.
It's strange to me, because I can't look at a person's eyes straight on. There are two, and I always get confused as to which one I should look at. So, somewhere in my early growth process I learned to make "eye contact" by focusing on the bridge of the nose and noting the eyes with my peripherals. As a side effect, I tend to be attracted to ladies with noses most would find unpleasant, and I can know a person for years without registering their eye color.